Let us all admit it honestly that we are not always true to our chat friends, at least not to those who we meet for the first time. While you are lying about something, are you sure you can spot when the other person is lying? Studies reveal men and women lie equally online, so it has nothing to do with the gender.
If you have believed the facts told by your chat friend, know these small tricks to spot the liar.
I am cuddly: If this is what you are told, remember that he or she is on the plus side. Lies about weight are more common in women, but men do lie about the same, as well. When someone puts a lean profile picture and has this to say to you, you can just know something is missing there.
I am rich: “Rich? Go get a job dude”, yes, this is something you should be telling the other person. Honestly, people who actually have all the money will never say the same to the chat friend, and for people who have ample money to find a date elsewhere, what the heck will they do in the chat rooms? Get this simple fact in mind and avoid lying about your finances.
I am a supermodel: Really? Unless you see at least a dozen of pictures of the person and have checked that those are not lifted from some modelling website, don’t believe in their words. You must understand that, men or women, supermodels don’t need to actually look for a date online, and even when they do, they will never say the same. After all, looking for love is all that matters for even supermodels.
My partner has broken up with me: Well, telling tales of breakup to gain sympathies is something that is not new. Men and women do it in equal measure. He or she might never have a boyfriend or girlfriend, or the stories that you believed to be true are extremely false. Love or not, don’t believe in the words that tell you sob stories without any reason.
Lying is not ethically wrong in dating sites, knowing there are problematic people out there. But when you are honest with someone, make sure that you are not being lied to. Love and friendship can only come from truth and only truth.
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