First Meeting after Chat

Meeting in real world after meeting on chatting sites can be a very delicate event. The whole meeting and it’s results are dependent on your relation that was developed during the times of chat. If she is showing interest in meeting you, that means she is also looking forward in a long term relationship. So you must take this seriously. Meet her in a public place or a place where she feels comfortable. Keep the following things in mind to make the best of your first meeting!

Be real: When meeting for the first time, you have to make sure that you should be real in front of her. If you try to fake, she will recognise it.

Don’t try too hard to impress: When you try to impress, you will be conscious about everything that you will do and look confused. So the chances of you making mistakes will be more. Hence, avoid trying too hard to impress her. She might have accepted the real you already! Keep in mind that you should not force yourself to find a girlfriend in her if you really can’t feel anything for her in that sense.

Don’t try to be physically intimate with her: Maintain some distance no matter how close you are with her. She would not love to be in any kind of physical contact with a guy she is meeting for the first time. Being a little flirty may prove to be good, depending upon the kind of conversation you used to have in online chat rooms.

Be courteous: If you are courteous enough, she will be highly impressed with your etiquettes. Get her some gift because it will be your first meet. Your actions and reactions should tell her that you are happy and excited about meeting her! Avoid getting drunk in the first meet as it will have a bad impact on friendship with girls.

Show your interest for the future: When you say goodbye, do not forget to mention that it was nice to meet her. Also show a little interest in meeting next time. However mind it, don’t force her to meet again. Just saying “looking forward to see you again” will ensure her that you liked her and you are interested in taking the relationship further.